Showing posts with label grinds my gears. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grinds my gears. Show all posts

Sunday, February 28, 2016

What Grinds My Gears: Apathy


We have all been in the position of feeling uninterested with certain elements of our lives. That is to be excepted as life is not filled with everything we desire. Yet there are some who exceed the “normal” amount of disinterest. I would like to divide apathetic people into two groups: the achievers and the quitters.

            Quitters are those who might have low skill or ability in a particular task and ultimately just give up on the task at hand. They quit when the challenge at hand is just that, a challenge, and is not easy to achieve. Unfortunately, they may not see the benefit in overcoming their limitations and experiencing the journey. Quitters should be pushed into new situations so they can become more comfortable with their abilities and the rewards of challenging oneself.

            Achievers are a different story. Apathetic achievers have an above average talent but do not use it effectively. They can easily overcome obstacles, yet they find the effort a waste of time. I don’t think this is their fault as I myself was placed in this position. They breeze through most things because everything comes easily to them, everything clicks. To push them out of their apathy, apathetic achievers also should be challenged with new things. That way, when they enter the real world they are prepared to face new problems. Ultimately, apathy can be pushed through with experiencing new things and the challenges that accompany them.

by: Joseph Pham

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

What Grinds My Gears: regarding the holidays


          During the holiday season there will always be people who do not get into the holiday spirit. At some point, most people have come across someone who rejects the notion of holidays for various reasons, ranging from its origins to the commercialized business with which holidays are associated. However, those people miss the point of the holidays; they forget about the joy and unity only holidays bring.

          Christmas can be seen as a season of greediness and gifts. Yet it is much more than that. For some people ,Christmas is a gift of giving, and there are countless stories of parents who work tirelessly to provide for their kids. Some even work extra hours to be able to provide gifts at all. Others find that Christmas is a time to show their love and care for others through gift exchanges among other means. For Christians, this is a time of waiting and celebrating the savior, Jesus Christ. To discount that love and joy as nonexistent destroys the spirit of the holidays.

          So how does one cope with those who avoid the holidays? Express the same love and joy you would give to your loved ones and try to include them. Maybe one day they will see the spirit of the holidays, but more importantly, you make them feel part of something genuine.
by: Joseph Pham

Thursday, November 12, 2015

What Grinds My Gears; the danger of extremes

         In every one of the debates I was dragged into, I was required to choose one side over another, and it is always difficult for me to support one side wholeheartedly. I find it concerning people are blind to the entirety of the issue by only one side of the facts. It breaks my heart that people will take their opinion so seriously that they despise others for believing in a contradicting opinion.
When we look at issues, there are inherit biases that we take on that sometimes may make us seek out information that proves what we believe to be true. This is very apparent in debates as many participants try to hide some of the truth or blatantly lie in order to win. This is by far the most aggravating thing and the thing I hate most about debates. An open discussion where a whole spectrum of opinions is tolerated would be much more favorable. For one, it does not pin up an “us versus them” mentality, but rather enables various views to be brought up that many may not have considered.
Nothing in this world is truly black and white; in reality, it is just different shades of gray. I agree the world has benefited from new radical ideas, but let us not forget ideas also have the capability to cause unimaginable atrocities. I think a balance of everything will benefit all us.  But, hey, that is just my opinion.


By: Joseph Pham